Give a girl some dating tips. I'm 22 and don't want to mess this up.?

So I just started dating this guy, we've hung out twice this week so far. No kiss yet. Not sure if that's a good or a bad thing. Hes 26, seems like a nice guy.





How do I not mess this one up. Last time I ended up getting my heart broken.





Tips/advice.Give a girl some dating tips. I'm 22 and don't want to mess this up.?
Just be yourself... when my fiance and I met he told me that he was going to show me all his bad habits upfront and I could decide if I wanted to stay and I was to do the same... COMPLETELY unconventional... we didnt kiss for 3 weeks! Being yourself is the key- if he doesnt like you for you- hes not worth it- and you deserve and will get better... I dont know what I would do if I wasnt accepted by my sweetie... probably wouldnt be together! (Im 26 as well) Just be yourself and guard your heart until you know that he's one that can be trusted not to break itGive a girl some dating tips. I'm 22 and don't want to mess this up.?
It's all fun - but even guys that are 26 are usually fairly messed up, confused and afraid of commitment





Don't worry about 'screwing it up' just have fun and don't let him push, talk or pressure you into anything your not ready for and make sure you do the same for him !





If he *actually* likes you - for you - instead of just looking for a bed buddy things will likely all work themselves out and be fairly easy. Although don't be nervous and jump to the wrong idea - only to blow it





Just remember BE PATIENT. If your sure this is the guy for you and you've felt like this, take it slow, and realize if this is your first time feeling like this theres a good chance your overwhelmed and not quite thinking clearly and it may not really have the potentinal work out





Be open to clues and hints he's trying to give you - but don't freak out by starting to think every little thing he does has a higher meaning that he's not really 'into you'. Nobody that's looking for a *healthy* relationship finds insecurity and dependence anything attractive. Insecurity just attracts relationship partners looking for fears and unhealthy dependence. They have little to no chance of being 'fulfilling' and tend to drag down both partners





Remember, although it's not as popular in a world of hooking up and 'booty calls' , there's NOTHING wrong with spending a few days or weeks just hanging with a person and getting to know them before things really get physical - in fact too often couples move straight to sex and forget to fall in love with each other !!!





As long as he's planning he's day around you and smiles warmly when you looks at you your fine and once your comfortable with him abd if he doesn't make 'the first move' then start trying to hold him when your in line ups, snuggle on the couch and stuff like that. IF he doesn't react the way you want and expect - remeber he just may not be a 'pro'





However if he is busting his buns to be with you, telling you how much he cares for you - but his smiles and body language don't back it up then he's likely just looking for a friend with perks - which may or may not be what your looking for. If you decide to be a friend with perks remember that this will end up meaning *WAY* more to you - then to him if you sleep with him and it may hurt you in future relationships





Get his email address - it's normally much easier for people to be honest about their emotions and feelings in email. The pressures off - however some people aren't the best with the 'written word' and may have a tougher time expressing themselves in 'e'





If you can talk about the 'hard' (eh ...... no pun intended) and the uncomfortable stuff in email it makes it much easier to confidently be a partner in a slow but stable and long term relationship. The hardest parts with 'slow' relationship is that it's hard to get 'confirmation' and often at least one of the parties goes a little nuts guessing and acts in a way they never normally would act and 'blows it'





Anyway, for people that are 'emotional' and enjoy being in touch with their heart, slow relationships give the time to savor every single part of your partner and really fall madly in love with them *BEFORE* you 'spend the night' with him. Trust me - it will be WELL worth the wait and you may end up staying clear of somebody that's not worthy of your trust and commitment only to later find somebody that makes you happy life played out like this





Emotions are serious things and for 'emotional people' they make up our personality and give us what we need to get to get the utmost satisfaction and joy out of life, just make sure your not careless with yours. It's easy when you see somebody that you 'click' with to *TOTALLY* lose your head and be so smitten you ignore giant warning signs .......





So - my answer are always long - but the short form:





Just relax and get his email address and pay attention to the way he smiles at you. If he really honestly likes *WHO* you are rather then *WHAT* you are (I'm assuming your hot ..) his smiles will be a bashful grin, if he's using you they'll be a greedy smirk that makes you feel a little uncomfortable





Just keep hanging out - if nothing happens try and start getting closer to him when your out and are talking and using any excuse to put your hand on his shoulder when your talking. Even a very smitten and bashful man will get the hint and when he feels you touch him like that should MORE THEN make up for is nervousness. If he's 'old fashion' or rather 'up tight' and you come on strong you'll just freak him out
Ask him how he feels about you.