Dating Tips, girls (16) help?

Ok this year i have my yr 10 prom and I kind of want to set an impression to others that I can bring a date. Im a relaxed guy at school and dont really engage in conversation but rather listen. My friends think ive never had a gf but actually Ive had plenty of girls which kind of hung out if you no what I mean ;) but seriously those were girls which came to me Ive never went for a girl myself.





I have a few questions after todays experience because Im clueless.


1. How do I begin a conversation during class (I sit in a seating plan next to girls all the time)


2. When a girl stares at you what do you do (I turn away so we dont get embarassed.


3. Do girls like guys who brag their looks (I have a few friends who always have a laugh over their muscles which are small)


4. Should a guy ask the questions or let the girl speak up?


5. What are some flirt tips because I got none and I lost my jokes years ago (I used to be a comedian)Dating Tips, girls (16) help?
1. Be yourself, say hey when you see them. Ask them about their weekend/holidays or something about the work that you're doing. As soon as the ice is broken its usually smooth sailing.





2. Look back and smile, you can hold the gaze or look away after a couple of seconds. If you're feeling confident, wink and smile then look away.





3. Guys who boast about themselves tend to have overgrown egos and this can be a MAJOR turn off. Its cool to joke and the occassional comment but really, self obsessed guys? Makes a girl wonder what she's there for.





4. Let the girl speak up but still ask questions. Show her you're interested about her not just what she looks like. Maintaining good communication is a must so dont just expect the girl to keep it going all the time.





5. Be natural and smile, smiling, winking, joking teasing all sorts. Flirting will come naturally whether you know it or not :)Dating Tips, girls (16) help?
1) during class you can mention something that has to do with school (do the homework? whatever) Or if there is a teacherthat everyone hates you can turn to one of them at a good time and make a comment on how wack the teacher is (etc.)


2) give the girl a little nod, small smile, a moments eye contact, then just look away


3) it depends on how they go about it. all girls are different about that one


4) both/either or


5) something casual, without the ';im joking'; tone but make it so she knows your joking. Just on something that you have in common, or on something that just happend. Be creative right at that moment
first of all, your image links don't work.


second, chill out. just smile and start a normal conversation. like ask her how she's been or something about class.


finally, guys who braag about their looks are arrogant jerks.
1. If you know you have something in common with the person you want to talk to, bring that up (a class, homework, etc.). Things like witnessing a school fight seem to work great :) Or, you can just say hi and give someone the eye. It puts the ball in their court sometimes.





2. Return the favor and politely stare back. If you're shy or intimidated, that's something that only time and confidence will get rid of.





3. NO. It is never charming, only compensating.





4. Whatever is right for the moment. Just make sure to engage in the conversation once it has begun.





5. I don't believe flirting can be taught. The rule that will work your whole life is: Be yourself and you don't have to try.


Of course you'll be nervous, but don't try too hard; it'll be obvious/fake. If you are naturally funny or charismatic, you shouldn't have a problem. The right one will naturally be drawn to you.

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