Dating tips for a 49 yr old woman who is about to divorce.?

i only had 3 boyfriends in my life because i am not the dating type. it scares the heck out of me. all the men i dated chased me to no end and i was engaged to each of them. the last one hunted me down and was so into marring me. he claims that when he first saw me my feet did not touch the ground. i actually floated by his eyes and he knew i was the one. eventually we married. after about 20 years, he decided he wanted other women so i left him. now that i am about to divorce him, i am tying up loose ends. when i am done, i want to look presentable to men. i am thinking of changing my hair and all sorts of things. problem is that i don't want to date. i am scared to death still. i really never learned what to do. these days i will not be so beautiful that men want to chase me down. my personality has to do the work. i am shy. but i am serious about trying to get to know someone. i would never have dreamed of such a thing, but a woman who claims to see the future said that i would have a kind hearted man next year and i would meet him at work. that means that i would have finished school and would have a new career. i am excited about that. the bottom line is that i want to be prepared beyond trying to look and smell nice. i want to know the rules of dating. where do you go. what do you do? i won't have sex till later or till i am engaged or married. i suppose that cuts out a lot of looky loos. what do you think i should do?Dating tips for a 49 yr old woman who is about to divorce.?
You left one important item. Do you have kids? If you have children that you are still raising, you shouldn't date until the last one is 18. Yep. The kids still like their dad, even tho you don't. They need their dad, not some other guy. Don't date, don't remarry, don't have sex until the kids are in college. The kids need YOU and not you with some new guy.


But if you don't have kids,then I say, get lookin good, but remember take it slow. You will have lots of opportunities to date. What sports do you like? What are your hobbies? Don't go to bars. Alcohol and dating don't mix well. Yes, you will meet guys in your new career. Be careful there, you will be looking good, be making money. Don't spill your guts to the guys you date, especially about making good money. Keep your finances to yourself. Be aware that there are guys out there that would love to date you. A friend of mine has a very good job and met this guy, well guess what he was teaching tennis and doing day trading, He gave up the teaching tennis and is just doing day trading. Well what is day trading anyway. Day trading is like gambling.


So this guy isn't really making a steady income, but he really likes it that my friend is doing well. He even thought he should move in with her. MISTAKE.


Just be careful. Ask lots of questions. Enjoy your new found freedom. Dating tips for a 49 yr old woman who is about to divorce.?
at 49 time for to enjoy life


be the woman you never dared to be


show a bit of cleavage


sex underwear


yes have sex , lots of sex


enjoy


you wont live for ever
i suppose it all depends on what you want and what you're hoping to find. the gene pool for dating gets smaller every year.
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you are 49 and old enough to know what you want --- please dont listen to anyone that offers teen dating advice ---- there are no rules there are no protocols ---- you do what you feel comfortable doing whatever that may be ---- i am also reserved when meeting new people and really do not know the dating scene either (im 55 so im no teenager) ---- regardless of what anyone may say the internet and adult chat rooms are a good way to meet new people ---- get to know them and decide if you want to go further ----- plus it is ALL personality --- if the guy can not engage your mind then you can ignore him ---- if you do not engage his mind then he will stop talking to you ---- best wishes
Why are you worried about a relationship before you are even divorced. Maybe that's what you did wrong you jumped into a relationship to fast. Maybe you should take off and get yourself together because all the changes you want to make in your life. You almost seem like you have a low self esteem. Maybe you should look in the mirror and learn how to like yourself first; because no one can like you if you do not like yourself. Look for your inner beauty. If someone cares for you they will like you for you not what you look like like but who you are.