Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Some Dating Tips Please :)?

Ok let me start of a little story about the past. I asked out girls in the past 1 time during jr high, and 2 time during high school, all the time rejected lol i never found out why cuz im a really nice guy,easy to get along with, my friends find me very funny random sometime at things i do lol so yeah never knew why i get rejected all the time. Now im in college woooot~





anyway this girl is my lab partner in anatomy and she 1 or 2 years older then me I think since she 3rd year and im 2nd year





So...





1. Should i ask her out since she older then me?


2. A little advice on asking a girl out lol, i already got rejected 3 times in my lifetime and that kind of broke my confidence but for some reason i just have a good feeling about her. She really nice, i find her voice very cute too and we r both going into the same field of study so yeah tip would be nice lolSome Dating Tips Please :)?
Ask her to go for a coffee or pizza. try to invite her to something a group of people are doing-club, sports event etc. Get to know her out of school, and she gets to know you-no pressure or rejectionSome Dating Tips Please :)?
try charming her-get her to like you before you ask her out!!!
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  • What are some tips you can give me on dating someone?

    I don't want to come across as too needy,


    But I don't want to come across as a soft touch either.





    Thanks a lot :)What are some tips you can give me on dating someone?
    Fresh breath


    Don't talk too much about yourself


    always smile


    be fun


    don't be shy but then again not overbearing


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    relax!What are some tips you can give me on dating someone?
    Dont be like a shadow to him, give him his space





    if he has guys night planned, u make girl night plans
    You didn't mention your age, so I'm assuming that you're young. The only basic advice I can give you is:





    BE YOURSELF.
    flirting is the best way to get you're date some attention, but dont go to fast that is my adivice! because s%^ can destory everything. Try telling jokes or chatting about interest. Try to make everything fun and nice ! =) but dont be too needy !
    flirt flirt flirt! but make sure to be yourself. Dont dress to impress anyone, trust me, i tried it last year and it was so not worth it.





    look into their eyes when theyre talking and be sure to smile!!
    i cant give you tips on HOW to date.. but ill tell you what i look for in a guy





    the clothes dont make a big difference.. as long as it looks comfortable with who he is and what he is wearing





    if you are nervous your date will notice and it will pretty much go downhill





    the way i see it is.. show your date who you really are so a few months down the line you dont split up because they didnt know certain things about you





    make your date feel special, listen to what they have to say and comment or even debate certain points





    conversation is the vital part.. tell them things about you and let them do it vice versa.. and really get into it.. be interested.. make comments.. debate..





    if you are stuck for conversation bring up somthing you like.. or ask them something about them





    another thing for me is hygiene.. whether you chew with your mouth closed and dont talk with your mouth full, and your nails are clipped and your hands are clean





    be yourself.. cos its you they are falling in love with.. not some phoney.. take it or leave it





    first date - peck on the cheek and a hug.. whether you knew them before or not.. nothing further.. dont try anything during the date and dont imply you wanna get them into bed. dont touch the dates bottom or linger on their chest or anywhere but the face. you can hug them/put your arm around them/offer them your jacket.. but anything else and your skating on thin ice





    good luck and i hope you find the right one =D
    Make sure alcohol does not play a part in your decision making and just be you, your only here once relationships can come n go.................

    Some dating tips pleaseeee?

    ok so one of my friends asked me to go out on a date and I said yes. to tell the truth, I鈥檝e never been too much of a dating person, so I suck at it, sort of. I know that ur supposed to relax and everything and just let the conversation go and be casual, but seriously, is there any way in which I can avoid awkward silences, please? I really want for both of us to have a nice time. just like topics u can talk about and sound totally casual and not like if trying to make a conv鈥?whatever I think im being too picky but any kind of help would be great thanxSome dating tips pleaseeee?
    For conversation, you can pick anything from Sports, weather, news, or even something you saw on YouTube. I've noticed that ';awkward silence'; on dates is usually because the two people don't know what or how much they have in common....if you bring up a topic, try to keep it open so the other person can feed off of that.





    Good Luck

    Any dating tips for someone with Asperger's?

    I have a mild form of autism known as Asperger's Syndrome. It has indeed affected my ability to interact with other people. I was just about to give up on the dating scene when a classmate beckoned the call. Everywhere I look, the young girls are attracted to the bad boys with fat egos, millions of tattoos, and muscle cars. All the while they're terrified of me, when it should be the other way around. Most of those self-centered jocks are usually charming other girls along the side. It's not like women come with a manual full of instructions, you know? So here's the scoop. This girl I'm being set up with also has Asperger's. I haven't been involved with anyone for five years, so I'm rather nervous. Every female I dated was a neurotypical moreover. I'm excited yet skeptical at the same time because I have no idea what to expect dating one of my own kind. Is there anybody out there who has any suggestions?Any dating tips for someone with Asperger's?
    Yeah, suggest talking about it with her. Tell her some stories of your experiences with AS, tell her you are nervous and haven't been involved with anyone for awhile.





    Be aware of what your quirky AS symptoms are. Try not to interrupt, try to listen, try to look in her general direction, though having AS too she probably won't be turned off if you are talking looking elsewhere when neurotypicals think this is rude. EYE CONTACT is completely over-rated and people on the spectrum don't care or notice if you don't have it so don't stress yourself out trying to force yourself to look her in the eye because it just doesn't matter to us. Try to be aware if you are going on and on and she looks bored. Ask her about herself. Do something fun, if you can handle dinner that is good but if you are too anxious to eat around people suggest something else.





    Ya know when neurotypicals give you that WTF look? Here is the perfect example, when a neurotypical asks you how are you doing, how's it going or something of that nature and you do not answer with the societal norm of fine, ok, could be better but actually answer the q, and they all look at you like you have two heads. Those on the spectrum 'get it' and you won't get that from them. She also won't think your word choices are odd and stop and make a big deal about using words like beckoned, moreover, or debacle.





    I really like AS people, I find them easier to deal with than neurotypicals (I have AS). I also connect easily to bipolar/schizophrenics though I don't have those.





    I'm not getting what deaf people have to do with anything, yes they communicate differently but don't have a communication disorder, as a hearing person I find that offensive for the deaf community.





    Ah, idk about the zoo. My sensory issues don't make that trip enjoyable at all. Those that are hyper olfactory- the smell of hippos is nauseating.





    I disagree on the arcades too, sensory overload!





    Suggest exchanging some info with her prior to the date via e-mail, much less stressful than the phone.Any dating tips for someone with Asperger's?
    Just relax as much as possible and have fun. You sound very well spoken and intelligent, so don't stress. If this girl is a good match for you it'll all work out fine. Any first date should be in a relaxed atmosphere that both of you will be comfortable in. Arcades are fun (everyone likes to Whack-A-Mole), or casual lunch (if both of you want you can make further plans, or cut your losses). Just remember us girls wish guys came with instructions too.
    be yourself and be extra polite. you'll do just fine. and again with the chicks liking the bad boys, its been my experience that guys like the mean girls. remember we had this conversation. just be yourself and treat her how you would want to be treated chances are she is feeling the same thing you are.and about the my own kind remark, you don't have three eyes and six legs. you are no different than anybody else.and neither is she.remember be yourself and have a good time
    Stop making such a big deal out of it! You have your five senses - be grateful! I am learning Sign Language and work with deaf people. They communicate with everyone and don't worry about 'sticking to ' their kind.


    Just have fun and enjoy yourself! Talk about interesting subjects and listen to her opinions.


    All the best and I am holding thumbs!


    Btw - completely agree - men and women with tattoos are a huge turnoff and I can't understand why some women date such machos.
    This might actually turn out nice for you. Try not to take over all the conversation. My son has aspergers and tends to do that. She might do that as well. Be patient. Share your experiences with aspergers but if she doesn't want to talk about that, find something else that you can talk about that she might enjoy. Just take your time and try to enjoy it. Talk about her interests also. If you are afraid of the conversation, go to a movie, make sure it is one you both like.
    in high school i dated a young man that i believe had A.S. and we had a fine time. our first date wasn't a typical one for someone of high school age. instead of going to the movies or something on that vein, we went on a nature hike and took a picnic lunch with us.





    don't be nervous, be who you are, and above all have a good time!!!
    Wait for a girl who has equal intelligence, very hard to be with someone who is not an equal in intellect, believe me I've tried- and it can't work unless you like feeling like you're sacrificing part of yourself to be with someone. BTW, um, is that icon photo who I think it is?
    Good for you! My youngest son was dx w/ autism when he was barely 18mths. Social Issues have always been something we are working on. Just be yourself! If you have to change for someone then they are not worth being with. Stay strong the right person is out there!
    Make eye contact and meaningful conversation
    I'd go to the water animals section of a zoo with her. I don't know any girl Aspies who don't love water. Or a natural history museum, especially like the kind in Cincinnati where you walk through caves, or something else awesome and kinda free and interesting. You can just walk around with her and get to know her without having to sit and feel confined and unrelaxed, pressured to say certain things or act a certain way. You get to see if she is the kind of person you'd hang out with any other day, and it's public so if she is too off....well, people saw you with her! :D I'm guessing a friend is setting up the blind date or else you might not go.... Good luck!
    hi. I have aspergers syndrome as well, as well as ADD and other maladies. It has affected my ability to interact with people, who always thought I was strange. My advice to you is to try and find the girl who everyone else thinks is strange for some reason or other. You may be surpirsed, I'd sooner date a strange boy than a stupid one, and you sound pretty intelligent to me. Do you like manga, or anime? The way I found my best friend on life is by apporaching a gorl who was reading a manga series I was fond of, and we hit it off right away. if a boy ever did that to me, I'd think him to be sweet, charming, and ablw to look past reputation. yes girls typically like ';this kind of guy';(although I see them and my head screams eww), but you'd be surprised to find out how amny girls are looking for something out of the ordinary.

















    Now, as for the own kind business, people with autism usually have narrow interest,(I know I do) so just find something you guys both love, and talk about it!
    must be a little nerve wracking going on a blind date never mind having a.s and going on a blind date





    if she has a.s too, then she will be aware of the 'eccentricites' you wil probably convey and have





    dotn exepct anything from her, or yourself, just try, thats all you can do, both of you, try to talk to each other, try to communciate as best as you both can, and if it gets awkward, just say, hey, its ok that its liek this, this is actually normal for ANY blind date





    try to do soemthing that will mean you get to enjoy things and open up , be yourself,





    in general dating tips are always the say whether you have a.s or not, but the communciation issue is the most prevalant issue, the one that will have the most problems





    as you both have it, you are BOTH aware of that, which is quite important and very good for you





    as apposed to you dating soemone who isnt aware of what to expect


    so you are both 'prepared' and so hopefully can be a bit more at ease





    other than that io have no real advice


    i think terri has a good point in what she says








    good luck and have a good time ;-)

    College dating tips and how do i look?

    How do I look? College dating help?


    wanted to know how you all think i look, would a cute asian or any other girl date me?





    I never had a gf before, and I'm 19.





    Once college starts, I am going to socialize with many girls. I am usually attracted to most cute asians, and usually go for the cute innocent look, rather then the hot looking girls. Since, I am innocent myself too, don't drink, and usually like to watch anime, play videogames, and nerdy activites.





    some pics:





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    Thanks in advance! Please, be honest!College dating tips and how do i look?
    you won't get much college dating tips because most of the people here are 12-18; not in college.





    be yourself and join clubs - people tend to attract and be attracted to people with similar interests/background to themselves. I think Asian girls will like you, you seem to be that style





    You look 19 - a bit young for 20s, but a little older than high school

    Detailed dating tips please?

    Here's my story: ive been going to this prude all guys school in the philippines since birth. so i never had a gf since that time. the number of girls i talked to, i could count with my fingers. that school doesn't encourage proms (they're prudes). but a couple of guys organized one which will happen at march.





    my idiot cousin will set me up with a date, which i predict i will meet in a very awkward manner. So i need to know exactly what to do and what to say. think of this as a movie script or something. you guys are the directors and writers. sorry to be too sarcastic, but thats the truth. i'll really appreciate answers with my sincerest gratitude. it will cost me my life. im 3rd year high school.Detailed dating tips please?
    just be relaxed, cool and funny. try and see if you can go in a group with other couples so you'll have more to talk about and there will be less pressure. girls like to talk about themselves, so be sure to ask lots of open ended questions (ones that cant be answered yes/no). have fun!Detailed dating tips please?
    just be your self, don't try to be something your not. talk to her like if she was one of the guys. she is a person not a thing. before you meet her get her 1 red rose, that will open the doors for you.

    General dating tips and Help For my situation?

    I have been told I have striking Brown eyes with gray circles of color that melds around them. The problem is I don't think I can compete with the Blue eyed guys out there. I tend to be shy so I'm trying to work up my eye technique so I can attract women to be interested in talking to me. I have been walked up to and told I'm ';hot'; but I really want a deeper connection then that with someone I date. Where is the best place a Minor can go to get dates when he lives in a small town(30 miles from a city) and What are the best ways for me to Identify with someone to Know if they are interested in me for who I am? I really am a Protector when it comes to relationships so I like other Protective people or people who can let me protect them(not shelter/stalk). Really I just lack confidence and abilities to get into situations were I can be alone with a girl for a little while. I have been told Girls dont like messier hair but I have fairly long bleach blonde hair that hangs in my eyes and could be considered a wings haircutGeneral dating tips and Help For my situation?
    ...... do what you feel naturally best for both of you.General dating tips and Help For my situation?
    Small town... I'd go out hiking or something crazy and fun. I'd also want ';him'; to take me somewhere simple. Like around the corner to get some ice cream and a nice chat. I like dark-eyed guys. Any colored eyes are coo.
    How old are you?%26gt;
    The best answer is of course, Be confident. If you aren't, Fake it! No one else can tell whether you are truly content with yourself or not. When a girl sees that you look sure of yourself, it tends to draw her in and make her interested.


    About your small town situation, I am in the same boat, so I can't really help there. Sorry!


    When it comes to looks, every one is someone's type somewhere. And you sound pretty damn good to me (would love to see your eyes.) Your hair sounds good to me.


    The bottom line is: Girls like all different kinds of boys, so don't worry about it too much, you will find someone who you feel comfortable approaching.
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  • Any dating tips? Help please...?

    I'm so confused as to who should pay the bill... As in,... the first meeting, he initiated in paying for the drinks...


    But for the next meeting, we might be going for a proper date, should we go dutch, gal foot the bill or the guy foot the bill???


    Thanks for helping... ...Any dating tips? Help please...?
    Share the bill.....dating is about sharing yourself as well...Any dating tips? Help please...?
    it will be leaving the guy a good impression if on subsequent date the gal can take initiative to pay for the minor bills.
    nothing says loving like a women who is not afraid to at least split the tab...it is not often as women think because a guy usually have a better paying job that the man is requested to pay.


    but most men like to see the women make the effort to be fair and pay at least some of the tab..


    ladies..do you have to order the most expensive thing on the menu? well, fair is fair..


    someday you may have a son and how would you feel about him being taken for granted?
    if you're for equal rights, you should split.

    College dating tips and how do i look?

    I never had a gf before, and I'm 19.





    Once college starts, I am going to socialize with many girls. I am usually attracted to most cute asians, and usually go for the cute innocent look, rather then the hot looking girls. Since, I am innocent myself too, don't drink, and usually like to watch anime, play videogames, and nerdy activites.





    some pics:





    http://photos-e.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc1/hs185.snc1/6176_1226068851775_1230633508_674156_5244056_n.jpg








    http://photos-h.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc1/hs210.snc1/7732_1239245501183_1230633508_720095_1389178_n.jpg








    What's your first impression on me? What kind of group of people would i hang out with?College dating tips and how do i look?
    Aww, you look sweet :)


    Ware cloths that represent you. (Graphic tees, brands you like, causes you support, ect)


    You look like youre nice and good for you for not drinking and doing that dumb stuff!! You dont need it!!


    Above all, relax. I dont think you'll have any problems finding a girl at college :)College dating tips and how do i look?
    i didn't even look at the pics but i prefer the cute innocent looking type rather than the ';hot'; looking type too.
    okay... first, be yourself. If the girl that you want to date doesn't like you the way you are then she just isn't the one for you.


    second, I'm sure (judging by the pictures) that if you wanted to you could get any girls' attention if you tried.


    third, don't be afraid to put yourself out there. go for it.





    The kind of people you would hang out with would probably be rocker/emo group.
    1)You posted your pic here many times before


    2)You look like you hang with the emo crowd.
    Go to college and conquer! Be your self and try to establish a good friend base. You look like a cute guy who just needs to be confident. Confidence is one of the most attractive things to women. Just be careful not to over analyze whats going on and have fun. You'll find some one.


    Also I wouldn't type cast you. You look like you could fit in with a lot of different people.
    my first impession on you was dang how come he never had a gf))
    I think you should pretend to be who you aren't in order to get women.

    Any god tips on dating someone who is possessed by the Devil?

    Thanks so much!Any god tips on dating someone who is possessed by the Devil?
    Excorjism! Clever!





    Well, in the South Park movie, Satan dated Saddam Hussein, so I would say grow out your mustache.Any god tips on dating someone who is possessed by the Devil?
    HERE IS A GOD TIP:


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    He sounds like the typical woman's perfect dream date. If you play your cards right, you might even become Mrs. Satan!





    Probably the only reason why the other girls aren't squealing, ';Ooohh, I'm so happy for you!'; is that they're jealous.
    God's daughter, Jessica, dated Satan. They had a babby together. I am sure God could give you some good tips.
    Sounds like you are getting into a ';scary'; relationship !
    Keep your cross on, girl and beat him with the holy bible.
    Give him an exorjism.
    Carry a cross and holy water with you at all times!
    Ask him about Hitler..
    Uh.....use birth control?
    lol i wish i had something witty to say

    Lesbian dating tips...?

    I have dated men my entire life and recently dated a woman (soft butch) and enjoyed it very much. There is a level of sensitivity that you can't find with a guy. (It did not work out because she was still getting over a previous relationship.) I met her on an online transgender dating site. She was like the one of three people. I find it hard to meet women like her as I am transgendered MTF. Any advice from the hotties I can't seem to score.Lesbian dating tips...?
    If you're in university or college, try the LGBT club/office/group, if there is one. It's possible to meet people there (I met my boyfriend there), and students there are more likely to view you as a regular woman.


    Something to note is that women (who were born female) are raised to be demure and quiet, and wait for the man to make a move. As a result, I've heard that one problem with lesbian dating is that everybody waits around for other people to ask them out. So don't be shy, basically.Lesbian dating tips...?
    well i just recently came out that i am bisexual and have had one experience and was a relationship but i do find it hard to find an atractive women as well.. iam in a relationship with a man but i miss having a womans touch as well...i hope you find what your looking for and if you figure out what to do let me know....
    Would you consider an intersexual? I find MTF's and FTM's attractive.

    Any Dating Tips For An UgLy Troll Face (Me)?

    I am not funny.. I am short.. I am ugly.. I am a little fat.. I have no friends.. my gf just broke up with me... I don't know what to do or where to go.. I am just a video game playing loser that runs home right after school.. and I've always been like this. I do want to change, but I don't know where to start or if its too late. Any Suggestions?Any Dating Tips For An UgLy Troll Face (Me)?
    no it is not late.put down that game and work out.if your face is not attractive,let your body be.create the best personality ever.i don't know how you would learn but become the best lover, any women could ask for.become suave smooth.your hair go to the salon let them tell what cut is best for you,let this come after the weight lost.dress stylish over all became a sexy,well mannered,well dress,out standing lover.get the one girl, believe you me the word will get around.i know i've seen it happen.let me your progress...........Any Dating Tips For An UgLy Troll Face (Me)?
    I like short boys, cause I bet you're tall to me...4'10';.


    Betcha not ugly (:


    If you think you're a little fat you could take up jogging, a sport, joining a gym or even just like, sit ups in your bedroom.


    Video games aren't for losers D: Unless I'm a loser, paha, probably am.


    Besides, you had a girlfriend, you can easily attract more.


    For the friends thing, joining a sport/club would be good and there might be girls there, too.



    This kind of sucks for u I'm short but funny I'm not really ugly i have tons of friends and i do pretty well with ladies i try to use my funniness to get friends and make girls laugh
    Just be yourself...it might suck now but in college, hell people will love you!

    I need tips on dating help?

    I need some help getting dates. I basically look like a nerd with glasses and braces and all and I need help fixing how I look like so that boys will go out with me. (By the way, I'm too scared to get contax lenses)I need tips on dating help?
    Okay there are a few ways to get around this (contacts were one but we'll skip that :) Get glasses that fit your face properly, and every now and then take them off for a little while (probably a few sec.) they'll take a glance of what you really look like, and the glasses itself wouldn't effect your appearance. Next is clothing, wear clothes that ';fit you'; I'm talking about semi tight shirts and/or pants, you don't have to show anything as long as it outlines your figure, believe me, this is a step up on appearances. You don't want to look trampy though, so wear what shows off your figure, some curves, but doesn't show too much, or make you feel uncomfortable. You don't have to worry about braces if your younger than 17 (maybe 16), this is because we hardly care about if you have braces or not, taking in account, a majority of people are starting to wear them. If you're older, that can pose a problem. One of the most attractive traits however is how you act, don't act to slutty, full of your self/ conceited, or slow (in some case). try to act open, with a sense of humor, get out of your shell and people, rather boys will approach you. hope it helps : )I need tips on dating help?
    i was super scared to get contact too. putting my hand that close to my eye (especially with nails), was super scary!





    i HIGHLY recommend getting them though. you can get them, and practice putting them on and off, wearing them for a short time and slowly increasing it to a full day...etc. glasses don't give you a good sense of peripheral vision, but contacts do! it's great!





    this will definitely help build your confidence as far as guys go.


    also, no guy is worth it if they're ONLY into superficial things. i'm not saying looks aren't important...i actually think looks can tell you a lot about a person. too much make-up, nicely dresses, poorly dressed, poorly groomed, etc. etc. but glasses can be pulled off! :) as for braces...everyone gets them...just don't 'care' about how they look on you...and think about all the pretty pearly whites you'll have afterwards! :) it's soooooo worth it!





    remember: guys can sense who has confidence and who doesn't. confidence is probably the most attractive quality anyone can have! :)
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  • NEED HELP......GUYS AND GIRLS PLEASE!!!!! I need dating tips.?

    If i really like this guy, but he seems like a guy who just wants to sleep with me and then find another girl. But he is really hot!!!!! Should i go for him?? Or should i go for this other guy who is totally in love with me, but he's not the most popular guy (and I am considered most popular of my grade). Will that ruin my reputation??


    HELP!!!NEED HELP......GUYS AND GIRLS PLEASE!!!!! I need dating tips.?
    here's a question you need to ask yourself... Do I want to have a really hot guy that will eff me and leave me or do I want to have an amazing guy who really does care about me? so what if he isn't that cute, if he is willing to treat you right and hes really into you isn't that what matters the most? you should really think about how you want to be treated, like a queen or like some other girl whos been with this super hot guy? if i was you i would want to be treated like a queen ... hope you make the right choice and choose with your heart and not your eyesNEED HELP......GUYS AND GIRLS PLEASE!!!!! I need dating tips.?
    lol r u joking??? what is it with your type of women i aint gonna say women in general but shoot ur asking about will it ruin ur reputation???? U GO WITH WHAT U FEEL NOT BY PEPOLES STANDARDS man u dissapoint me u rather have a guy who will use u?? get to know him first cuz he could just want the sex!
    It depends what you want. Do you want sex or a relationship? I am sure your friend that is in love with you, would no longer be interested if he knew you were even writing this.





    What is it with this popularity crap? I am not from America, but it just seems ridiculous. Do you like that guy because he is a nice, cool guy, or because he is popular?





    I personally think that maybe you shouldn't sleep with either of them, because you are not mature enough.

    Dating Tips For 17 year old. Please.?

    Hey


    OK, here's the lowdown, I'm 17 years of age and am going on my first real date with a girl I like a year younger than me. We're going to the cinema and then probably have lunch afterwards, the problem is I really do not have a clue what to do.





    I haven't had a girlfriend for three years, that may be shocking to people, I don't consider myself extremely good-looking, probably 6/10 but my forte is my personality. Nearly everyone I hang out with says I am the funniest person they know and they also say I am kind and considerate.





    But I have a lack of expertise dealing with girls. I take ages to make a move and by the time I've plucked up the courage a boy dates her and goes out with her.





    As for my date, I haven't spoken to her in person, seen her a few times but mainly talk online. She goes on webcam (no dirty stuff ;)) and I make her laugh with most my lines. So please can you give me some general dating tips, any help would be much appreciated.





    Thanks.Dating Tips For 17 year old. Please.?
    Make sure the arm goes around the shoulder while watching the movie. Let the hand wonder a bit. If she isn't pulling away..keep the hand roaming.





    Don't be nervous dude, this is the fun stuff. :)Dating Tips For 17 year old. Please.?
    Well, the best thing you can do is just be yourself. There arent any real dating tips that you can use other than hold her hand, tell her shes beauiful, and gorgeous and all of that good stuff and dont try to push her into anything. Ask her if you can kiss her instead of just doing it. Be like, I really love your lips, would you be okay if I gave you a kiss?...haha sounds stupid n cheezy but it works.

    Dating tips - Playing hard do get?

    I just started to date this girl. She seems to be a very busy girl, with a lot of work and outside activities (sports, hiking etc.). She's very independent, kind of the girl who puts career before relationship, i think. We went on two dates, she seemed eager to see each other again. Two weeks later, (after being busy), I get an email yesterday saying hey call and we could hang out. So when I do call, she's gives me, well i'm busy, we'll see. attitude. What do I do? Is she playing hard to get? Do I call her this weekend? Or just send an email? Or what do play hard to get too? Dating tips - Playing hard do get?
    Don't listen to a guy that tells you she'll call you back. He's been mentally castrated. She's testing you to see if you're a man or not. Men are what women are attracted to-- get it? This is why they play hard to get. She wouldn't go out with the puss that has a ';wait %26amp; see'; attitude while a real man takes her out. This is how women weed out the chumps.





    I suggest you call. It's direct. E-mail is passive-- the puss's wait %26amp; see attitude. Tell her what date and time you want to take her out, not what date and time you are available. Notice the difference? Your time is valuable. If she does it again, tell her perhaps some other time, and lose interest. Dating tips - Playing hard do get?
    Go along with it for now, if it persists then step back. If she is truly interested then she will contact you. Good Luck

    Does anyone have good tips to share about dating?

    does anyone have good tips to share about dating? if so please tell me. i really need help. im like a dating screw up.Does anyone have good tips to share about dating?
    be ur self that's the magic trick to be ur self

    Dating tips please!?

    Im kinda nervous about seeing this girl tonight. We have talked for about 2 weeks everyday, but we have yet to meet. I usually dont date, seems like I have been from one relationship to the other without even doing any dating (is that wierd?) Anyways I dont know about this becuase we already know a lot about each other from talking on the phone. Never been in the situation before. Should I try to kiss her if I like her...what do you think I should do? Anything would help....





    thanksDating tips please!?
    See how the night goes and do what feels right. Remember this: It's much better to do too little, and save something for the next time (i.e hugs, kisses, flirting, etc) than to rush and do too much and make things awkward or scare her away. Be yourself, stand like a man, look confident, keep her on her toes and you'll do great. G'luck buddy.Dating tips please!?
    When you see her, hug her and ask her how she's been and if she hugs back and smiles and looks happy to see her, she would love a kiss.

    Dating tips? What am I doing wrong?

    Okay, I'm 17 years old and I'm a senior in high-school. I've yet to have ever been kissed or have a boyfriend. I know life isn't all about that, but I'd still like to experience it, and I admit sometimes I do get pretty lonely. Now, this might sound conceited, but I think if it were truly conceited I'd post my picture up or something, but I think I'm attractive. I mean, I model and I get nice comments from guys so I guess I'm not too horrible looking. I think I have a nice personality, so, what's the problem?





    I think it's when I go out and I see a cute guy, he looks at me and smiles and I get SO SHY and SCARED that I look away! I don't do it to be mean, but I guess it can be taken that way. I also have an issue with looking people in the eye...so maybe I'm doomed to be forever single. Like, today, I was at a store and this really cute guy kept glancing at me, and I glanced once at him and looked away from time to time, but he didn't make a move. :(





    I'm too much of a wuss to make a move, either. I'm more of a 'guy-makes-the-first-move' kind of girl. So, what do you guys think? What can I do to open myself up more?





    :)


    Thanks.


    %26amp; please don't make any mean comments.


    :)Dating tips? What am I doing wrong?
    Right, I'm 14 years old and I can't believe you've posted this question on yahoo. The very reason you post issues like this is one reason why your not getting asked. You should be out there, looking. Also, you need confidence. You say yourself your attractive, so smile back at boys, they are obviously interested. Confidence is the key. So get off the internet and into the real world, and never give up.





    Good luck.Dating tips? What am I doing wrong?
    Next time a guy smiles at you, just think ';hes cute, but so am i'; and just imagine hes a friend, and go for it, girl:)
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  • DATING TIPS?! (for a thirteen year old)?

    i have a friend named steven hes a really nice guy and everything and hes also my friend. on thanksgiving weeekend he asked me if i wanted to hang out and i said ok and when we got to the park he asked me out. last year he went out with my friend Ariana and she said she could hardly talk to him because it was awkward and i found that too. so i said no and that we were just friends. now our school is having a halloween dance, and hes going to ask me to that and if i say yes he will ask me out after. but i really want to stay friends with him but i think it will be really awkward if we were to go out! help?!DATING TIPS?! (for a thirteen year old)?
    Just go to the dance with him, if he asks you out just say that you don't want to ruin your friendshipDATING TIPS?! (for a thirteen year old)?
    Well, it's still ok to go out and have a good time just as friends. If he's easy to talk to, you could tell him before the dance that you'd love to go, but ';just as friends';. My friend talks about this site that her 15 year old son uses all the time for dating tips. It is http://www.datingtips247.com Maybe it can answer some questions for you. Good luck!
    all u need to know is all he's after is a *******, so get your mum 2 show ya
    At your age, parents should be saying, ';To the dance and straight home.'; Lets you off the hook about worrying about hanky panky. As a matter of fact, run that by your parents. They come in handy as someone to blame when you're not sure of yourself.





    I mean, if you want, he can hang out at your house with snacks and friends afterwards. With your parents in the other room with the door open but studiously not looking at anything but the TV or reading. LOL





    Or down the hall but refilling the popcorn bowl every 15 minutes. Hey, 13 year olds are too young to have to deal with this if they don't want to and your parents are your allies.

    Dating tips for a person with autism?

    I am 19 years old and I was born with autism but I'm highly functional. ( I can do things like other people) but I have an awkward shyness when it comes to dating women (I'm not Gay!) . I just don't have the confidence to go out with someone of the opposite sex. Is their any website I can go to for help or does anybody have any tips they would like to share.





    I also don't know how to drive and I am overweight. I am trying to learning how to drive and I am trying to lose weight. Does this have anything to do with this?Dating tips for a person with autism?
    I think that the most attractive thing in a date is confidence. Just comfort yourself and tell yourself that you love yourself whenever you can instead of beating yourself up for things such as weight or shyness. A car or a lean body is not what makes you lovable. Remember that.Dating tips for a person with autism?
    There is an autism forum shown on the 1st page of section 12, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris Weight loss; section 56. Self confidence; section 38. A previous answer follows: DATING: Free advice, and a much larger range of websites than are permitted to be posted here, may be found in section 9, on social anxiety, at ezy-build. Check out the extensive free email material De Angelo offers, and only then make your decision on the next logical step, of the 3 choices available, or just opt out; you know your personal circumstances best. Then, in your position, I'd first take an escort out to a meal at a restaurant.





    Ask her how she, and other women would like to be approached. What subjects to talk with women about, and what to avoid. Where to go. (Coffee involves little pressure, or committment, and you can often learn a lot in a short time about whether a relationship with that person is worth pursuing). Maybe a movie next time, or a meal. I'd go on these ';dry runs'; at least 2, or 3 times.





    Expect many rejections; adopt De Angelo's approach, though, and go out with the sole purpose of approaching at least a dozen women, and saying, ';Hi, my name's ?????, and I'm out tonight meeting new people, and I thought you looked interesting, and attractive. What should I call you?'; Ask for her email address, and give her a notepad, and pen; have no expectations - just see what happens. Regard it as an opportunity to learn, and develop, or hone your social skills, not as a test you can fail.





    You may wish to have something to calm your nerves. Try having a cup of ';Tension Tamer';, herbal tea, by Celestial Seasonings, (from supermarket tea, or health food aisles) or make some at home, and cool, then bottle, and drink as needed (I find it so strong tasting, that I need to drink it quickly, followed by something like fruit juice, to take away the taste, but others may find it more tolerable).





    C(h)amomile tea is a more palatable option. Herbal remedies, such as valerian, are often effective, but know how it affects you, first. Avoid overuse of alcohol: it is counterproductive. 1 - 2 drinks, at most! (not beer, because beer breath is a potential turnoff). There are many internet chatrooms where you can develop online skills, but these often don't translate well in real life situations. Phone calls are a good next step. Then coffee.





    Speed dating is an option for later, once you have developed your skillset. If you aren't sexually experienced, this can be a big hurdle, later on. One option is to get some experience with those who do it professionally, regard it as a form of therapy, perhaps, or just a bit of fun, but try to learn about how to satisfy a woman. http://www.askemilyanything/ and Y!A womens section, and books.





    Always ask what they like, and what they don't, and allow PLENTY of foreplay, allowing them let you know when they're ready, or waiting for at least 15 minutes. Many women these days have certain minimal requirements of potential boyfriends, such as: 1) A place of his own. 2) Full time employment. 3) No drug problem. Having a car can help, in some places. Be cocky, and funny too, if possible. Don't appear to be needy; it's a turnoff, as is a lack of confidence (see section 38). Dress for the venue, or occasion, and consider having a makeover. Ask a number of people (not the girls you are trying to get to know, at least, not for some time) how they think you could look better; some should have a good suggestion, or two; most won't, though.

    Any tips for dating? [20 characters]?

    I'm about to go into high school. Ive never dated before. do you have any tips for me in case i really like a guy?Any tips for dating? [20 characters]?
    Be yourself!

    Dating tips...help?

    ok so im 20 years old and i have never really had a gf...i mean ive lived doing the dating rules ( 3 day rule-bad boy-not too nice etc..) but this is stupid..i mean i think that ive never had gf because of this..ive always followed by rules...i think that if u are urself filled with confidence.no matter what u will get the mate u want...obviously there are thing girls and guys shouldnt do...Who here also thinks that living tru thse so called dating rules is stupid...as long as U are uself and confident..u can get anyone u want...ANyone agree?? dissagree??Dating tips...help?
    I do agree. All these rules, wait 2 days before calling, never be the first to say I love you, blah blah blah. they inhibit honesty, trust, and real love in a relationship. i've only ever had one relationship, and it failed because those rules.


    just be yourself, and never think you need a relationship to be fulfilled in life.Dating tips...help?
    theres only one dating rule pal, and its called wraping your tool. Now, if you act the way you really are, you're better off. You'll find someone who likes you for you and not just for your ';image';
    Yea you gotta have confidence in yourself, and show that confidence to woman you know
    tip number one...stop spending so much time on Yahoo! Answers. Just Kidding. Always be yourself. If you do that, at least you'll know the girls you talk to will actually like you.
    Hey there! I am 21, and not much more successful than you are. I had one girlfriend, and I don't even know how I got her. She was amazing, but I don't think I was ready for her. That was 5 years ago. Anyways, I haven't started dating seriously until last February, and I gotta say it has been a fun ride. I haven't stolen anyone's heart yet, and I think I may have broken one by accident, but I've learned so much about girls and myself as well. Don't get obsessed with rules, I tried that freshman and sophomore year of college, and it didn't lead anywhere at all. There are some general guidelines that are little more than common sense that you might want to follow, and I will list them:





    1. Don't take dating so seriously. One date does not equal a relationship...there's no ceiling number that leads to a relationship. It takes a verbal commitment from both parties.


    2. Date people who you aren't ';your type.'; If you really knew what ';your type'; was, wouldn't you have found it by now?


    3. Don't date for the sole purpose of finding ';the one'; or your soulmate, and don't be disappoitned if you have to date many girls before you even find someone who can be your girlfriend. Girlfriend does not equal soulmate.


    4. If there's any rule I try to stick to, it's the two-day rule. Wait about two or three days before you call after the first date so you can process how things went, and she can do the same. You don't want to be overbearing, this is the quickest way to scare a girl off. Believe me, I've done it about 5 times in the past year. Heh, lesson learned.


    5. Take chances. Don't be afraid to get your feelings hurt. It's only temporary, and sometimes pain is the best teacher you'll ever find. My most painful experience was when I confessed I was in love with this one girl. It was also my most educational experience...


    ...but I mean when you decide you want to know get a girl better, don't tell her you love her, that's not what I did, we spent a whole summer together as friends, and then I went off to school, came back over Christmas, confessed, and the rest is history. I mean take chances by being more vulnerable early on, and after those two or three days, decide whether you want to date her or not, and tell her. This will make things crystal clear, letting her know where you stand, and you'll probably find out soon enough where she stands.


    6. Make friends with as many girls as possible. Don't know how to approach them? Well, just introduce yourself and shake their hand. It's absolutely essential to have a girl you can trust who isn't a dating prospect per se, but is one who can analyze your decisions and behaviors, as well as any girl you might be pursuing. She will be the female equivalent of your wingman, and will be invaluable to you. Oh yeah, and some of the best relationships between men and women start off as honest, fun, open, and low pressure friendships.


    7. When you find a girl you like, DO NOT leave your female wingman behind! Introduce the two of them, and make it clear that you and your wingman are good friends. If this other girl is jealous, well, she's not ready for you and maybe you don't need her. Same thing applies to her as well. Don't make her feel like she has to leave her guy friends behind for you, and don't feel jealous if she hangs out with other guys. If you are that controlling, maybe you aren't ready for her yet. That's okay, I wasn't ready for dating for 20 years, and I'll never stop learning. Even if I get married, I'll still learn new things about dating. Same goes for you.





    Hope you have fun, and don't forget that learning about women should be your number one priority. When you've learned enough, the girlfriend will be there.
    Rules? dating has no special rule.. .. Its you and your assertiveness to capture.. Try your best.








    The situation will tell you what to do,, and what should not be doene will be clearly from the steering of your gf.
    forget the rule, always do what is required of the situation... dont be wierd, immature, or a smart ***. these are exceptions to what i wrote about no rule. you dont want to act cool or act bad and get a girl because honestly how long can you keep up that act, also she will be dating who she thinks you are as opposed to who you really are...
    I think Bad Boys like Brad Pitt can get anyone they want.





    I do agree there comes a time (you have played by the rules and you're gettin' nowhere) maybe you just say the heck with it and go out on your own. If you have plenty of confidence, you can easily do that. So dude, maybe it's time you tried your ';wings.';

    Dating tips for a 49 yr old woman who is about to divorce.?

    i only had 3 boyfriends in my life because i am not the dating type. it scares the heck out of me. all the men i dated chased me to no end and i was engaged to each of them. the last one hunted me down and was so into marring me. he claims that when he first saw me my feet did not touch the ground. i actually floated by his eyes and he knew i was the one. eventually we married. after about 20 years, he decided he wanted other women so i left him. now that i am about to divorce him, i am tying up loose ends. when i am done, i want to look presentable to men. i am thinking of changing my hair and all sorts of things. problem is that i don't want to date. i am scared to death still. i really never learned what to do. these days i will not be so beautiful that men want to chase me down. my personality has to do the work. i am shy. but i am serious about trying to get to know someone. i would never have dreamed of such a thing, but a woman who claims to see the future said that i would have a kind hearted man next year and i would meet him at work. that means that i would have finished school and would have a new career. i am excited about that. the bottom line is that i want to be prepared beyond trying to look and smell nice. i want to know the rules of dating. where do you go. what do you do? i won't have sex till later or till i am engaged or married. i suppose that cuts out a lot of looky loos. what do you think i should do?Dating tips for a 49 yr old woman who is about to divorce.?
    You left one important item. Do you have kids? If you have children that you are still raising, you shouldn't date until the last one is 18. Yep. The kids still like their dad, even tho you don't. They need their dad, not some other guy. Don't date, don't remarry, don't have sex until the kids are in college. The kids need YOU and not you with some new guy.


    But if you don't have kids,then I say, get lookin good, but remember take it slow. You will have lots of opportunities to date. What sports do you like? What are your hobbies? Don't go to bars. Alcohol and dating don't mix well. Yes, you will meet guys in your new career. Be careful there, you will be looking good, be making money. Don't spill your guts to the guys you date, especially about making good money. Keep your finances to yourself. Be aware that there are guys out there that would love to date you. A friend of mine has a very good job and met this guy, well guess what he was teaching tennis and doing day trading, He gave up the teaching tennis and is just doing day trading. Well what is day trading anyway. Day trading is like gambling.


    So this guy isn't really making a steady income, but he really likes it that my friend is doing well. He even thought he should move in with her. MISTAKE.


    Just be careful. Ask lots of questions. Enjoy your new found freedom. Dating tips for a 49 yr old woman who is about to divorce.?
    at 49 time for to enjoy life


    be the woman you never dared to be


    show a bit of cleavage


    sex underwear


    yes have sex , lots of sex


    enjoy


    you wont live for ever
    i suppose it all depends on what you want and what you're hoping to find. the gene pool for dating gets smaller every year.
    ';give much younger guys plenty of opportunity to score, we love milfs and cougars!';


    damn it Johnny W you beat me to it %26gt;%26lt;
    give much younger guys plenty of opportunity to score, we love milfs and cougars!
    Im 260 lbs-5';4 - i am 13 .can i get on southbeach diet and how many lbs will i lose in 4 months?
    you are 49 and old enough to know what you want --- please dont listen to anyone that offers teen dating advice ---- there are no rules there are no protocols ---- you do what you feel comfortable doing whatever that may be ---- i am also reserved when meeting new people and really do not know the dating scene either (im 55 so im no teenager) ---- regardless of what anyone may say the internet and adult chat rooms are a good way to meet new people ---- get to know them and decide if you want to go further ----- plus it is ALL personality --- if the guy can not engage your mind then you can ignore him ---- if you do not engage his mind then he will stop talking to you ---- best wishes
    Why are you worried about a relationship before you are even divorced. Maybe that's what you did wrong you jumped into a relationship to fast. Maybe you should take off and get yourself together because all the changes you want to make in your life. You almost seem like you have a low self esteem. Maybe you should look in the mirror and learn how to like yourself first; because no one can like you if you do not like yourself. Look for your inner beauty. If someone cares for you they will like you for you not what you look like like but who you are.

    Dating Tips, girls (16) help?

    Ok this year i have my yr 10 prom and I kind of want to set an impression to others that I can bring a date. Im a relaxed guy at school and dont really engage in conversation but rather listen. My friends think ive never had a gf but actually Ive had plenty of girls which kind of hung out if you no what I mean ;) but seriously those were girls which came to me Ive never went for a girl myself.





    I have a few questions after todays experience because Im clueless.


    1. How do I begin a conversation during class (I sit in a seating plan next to girls all the time)


    2. When a girl stares at you what do you do (I turn away so we dont get embarassed.


    3. Do girls like guys who brag their looks (I have a few friends who always have a laugh over their muscles which are small)


    4. Should a guy ask the questions or let the girl speak up?


    5. What are some flirt tips because I got none and I lost my jokes years ago (I used to be a comedian)Dating Tips, girls (16) help?
    1. Be yourself, say hey when you see them. Ask them about their weekend/holidays or something about the work that you're doing. As soon as the ice is broken its usually smooth sailing.





    2. Look back and smile, you can hold the gaze or look away after a couple of seconds. If you're feeling confident, wink and smile then look away.





    3. Guys who boast about themselves tend to have overgrown egos and this can be a MAJOR turn off. Its cool to joke and the occassional comment but really, self obsessed guys? Makes a girl wonder what she's there for.





    4. Let the girl speak up but still ask questions. Show her you're interested about her not just what she looks like. Maintaining good communication is a must so dont just expect the girl to keep it going all the time.





    5. Be natural and smile, smiling, winking, joking teasing all sorts. Flirting will come naturally whether you know it or not :)Dating Tips, girls (16) help?
    1) during class you can mention something that has to do with school (do the homework? whatever) Or if there is a teacherthat everyone hates you can turn to one of them at a good time and make a comment on how wack the teacher is (etc.)


    2) give the girl a little nod, small smile, a moments eye contact, then just look away


    3) it depends on how they go about it. all girls are different about that one


    4) both/either or


    5) something casual, without the ';im joking'; tone but make it so she knows your joking. Just on something that you have in common, or on something that just happend. Be creative right at that moment
    first of all, your image links don't work.


    second, chill out. just smile and start a normal conversation. like ask her how she's been or something about class.


    finally, guys who braag about their looks are arrogant jerks.
    1. If you know you have something in common with the person you want to talk to, bring that up (a class, homework, etc.). Things like witnessing a school fight seem to work great :) Or, you can just say hi and give someone the eye. It puts the ball in their court sometimes.





    2. Return the favor and politely stare back. If you're shy or intimidated, that's something that only time and confidence will get rid of.





    3. NO. It is never charming, only compensating.





    4. Whatever is right for the moment. Just make sure to engage in the conversation once it has begun.





    5. I don't believe flirting can be taught. The rule that will work your whole life is: Be yourself and you don't have to try.


    Of course you'll be nervous, but don't try too hard; it'll be obvious/fake. If you are naturally funny or charismatic, you shouldn't have a problem. The right one will naturally be drawn to you.
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  • Dating tips help me out please! I really like her?

    Hi so i met this girl for the second time, first time it was in a bus, and i said to myself god this must be the most beautiful girl ever. And tonight at the movies, i didn't talk to her but the second time my little cousin told me that he knows her and told me her name. I would really love to date her, i've added her to facebook but what should I tell her? I don't want to sound like a freak and say hey my cousin told me your name, want to go out? Or maybe i'm wrong, it's not as bad as it sounds? Please give me a good advice, elaborate one.Dating tips help me out please! I really like her?
    Asking her out out of the question. just send a private msg saying. ';hey, ive noticed you a few times in the places i hang out and i was wondering if you'd be interested in a cool new friend =P ';





    Then on your second msg with her. ( if there is one) you can mention her connections with your cousin or friends or whatever. Girls are special, the words you say to them dont have to be. ( note: dont HAVE to be..but probably should)Dating tips help me out please! I really like her?
    You shouldnt tell her her name just go and ask her, Say ';Hi im (name) and ive noticed you on the bus and I just wanted to know if it would be cool if we could hangout or something';. And go on from there.

    Dating tips please?? Please help!?

    I'm 15 and a sophomore in high school. I have a new boyfriend and I'm kinda new to this and so is he. He's also 15 and a sophomore. We've been dating for about a month. He's such a nice guy! I had a crush on him and told my best friend about it. Well, one day I called her and she asked if I still liked him and I said yes. She told me that she asked him if he liked any girls, and she found out he liked me too! So she had him call me and he asked me out. We went on a date to the mall and it was great. We got ice cream (the kind where you watch them make it, so it was a little more expenseve), and he paid for me, even though I said he didn't have to! We've both only had one other bf/gf before, so we are both still new to this. He gives me the space I need, unlike my ex who would call me all the time. So, I just want some good dating advice please. Thanks!


    Dating tips please?? Please help!?
    He seems sweet and the kind of boy that's right for you. Just tell him how much you love him everyday and send him sweet messages(just not too much coz he will think you're boring and you wanna be with him all the time, coz just like you said that you need space it's the same for him). Never ever talk about your ex or ask him about his ex-not good. If you caught him looking at some other girl don't get mad. All the boys are like that, but that doesn't mean he loves her he just thinks she is hot. I'm sure you find(for example)Zac Efron very attractive but that doesn't mean you like him more than your boyfriend right??? Just stay sweet and nice, try not argue with him bout stupid stuff(but never let him control you though) and dress cute and sexy ;)





    Hope i helped ;)


    Good luck in your relationship :)

    Dating tips! I'm new at this /: ?

    So I'm in high school and I've only ever had one boyfriends before. We never even kissed and we only went out like 4 times. To the movies. It was pretty bad actually, and the guy was horrible. So now, I have this friend who i REALLY like, and he asked me out so, naturally, I said yes. But now, at school, I am not sure how to act around him! I mean, it's only one date , but apparently to everyone that equals going out, going together, whatever. So, am I supposed to act any differently with him at school now? The past few days weve just talked like normal, although, it hassss been a tad bit awkward! I really wish it wern't though. And he sits with me at lunch and walks with me to classes, but he used to do that before anyway. Also, this date, we kinda planned to go to dinner andd a movie, with two of our friends who are going out. So, I am just not quit sure how this whole thing works. Can you help me? Dating tips! I'm new at this /: ?
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    Dating tips for online lovers who gonna meet for the first time?

    I met a german (frankfurt ) guy through a marriage partner finding web site. We improved a good communication online for last month. We sort of love each other and he will be visiting me in asia on next month. He will be most probably down here around valentines day. I need your help :) can you give me some dating ideas and gift ideas. He is a german. What should i get him for the first meet ? Should i give him flowers ? Or do you have better ideas. I am really excited. Thanks for your assistanceDating tips for online lovers who gonna meet for the first time?
    Just be yourself!





    If you put on a big pony show and it works out, you will only be able to keep up the act for so long. The last thing you want is him falling for someone who is not really you.





    Why waste both of your time?





    I would guess anything would be appreciated as long as it is from the heart.Dating tips for online lovers who gonna meet for the first time?
    Wow, a gift says a lot about how you feel for someone and if this guy is truly someone special, you should give him a personal gift and not something store bought. Perhaps write him a special card or note about your feelings of anticipation over meeting him face to face. If he's a thoughtful type of guy who likes to express his feelings, he will love that you took the time to express yours. Give him the card with a single flower, something that is YOUR favorite, not his. Giving the gift of yourself should be enough. BUT, DON'T SLEEP WITH HIM on this visit, even though he's traveling a great distance to come meet you, DON'T give in to temptation. Be affectionate, kind and loving, but hold off on sex. Men DON'T marry women who sleep with them on the ';first date'; and although you've had a long distance relationship via the web, this is STILL a first date. Resist and you will be rewarded! Trust me on this one.





    Good luck.
    You should think more about how you are going to be, what you guys should do, and how to be comfortable because I would be sooooooo uncomfortable to meet someone in real life whom I already sort of know.... I feel old fashion but this is too strange for me still. But uhm, I'd say Be Yourself That is the best way to give an impression to online people I guess, since they already know you verbally but not gesture or aura wise. Don't worry about gifting! Plus, aren't you a girl? He should be the one gifting you if it's really necessary! Haha have fun!
    Hello,





    I think you should check this link, will help you, really.





    http://zeegle.info/blog/online-dating/
    You only think he is a german guy. That's what you've been told, but you really have no idea who or what he is.





    Good luck.





    My advice is to say, DO NOT MEET THIS GUY! You're very life may be at steak
    why give him a gift when the gift is already you.. since you both probably been dying to see eachother. dont worry so much about a gift.. but more of a first impression of seeing you =]


    it will go well... don't worry.
    There is no need for a gift, my dad and my step mom met by match.com and had no gift for each other when they first met and they wanted to see was each other.
    Cook for him, asian style but make sure it's something he likes.
    bring a cop so you dont get raped and killed
    bring mace, you never know with those online people.

    Dating Tips need help?

    I am a male who just graduated from HS and am asking out one of my best friends who is a senor in HS. we have known each other since around 2-3 grade and went to different HS. also we are (were) in different social groups. she is a prep ( abercrombie, brand name) and i was not in any group that i know. i just drifted through HS with friends here and there. I'm ';somewhat'; confident she will say yes. what i need is tips for first dating Do's and dont's for people who are already good friends. as well as any advise on asking her out. the biggest problem is if she says no i still hang with her all the time. and i HATE awkward situations.





    Dating Tips need help?
    first date do's and don'ts. If you got the first date. She obviously likes you. So just don't do anything to screw it up. Women also like originality. Dinner and a movie....a little lame. Come up with someone you know you two would enjoy. If you guys have know each other that long!! surely you should be able to figure something out fun and not awkward to go do. Picnic, go to a lake or beach, an amusement park if you can afford it, show her you put some effort into the date!

    Dating tips please ?!?

    iv been going out with this girl for 2 week nearly 3 and i love her so much. today we went out around town with a few friends i won her a teddy with a heart on it and gave it to her she loved it and we held hand n stuff but when she was getting picked up just before they had arrived and we were waiting our 2 friends said ';go on kiss each outer well look away'; but we never kissed and i fell like i should of kissed her. its valentines day soon (were both young teenagers) any ideas?


    i need advice on how to talk easier because were still a bit shy





    any tips on dating ?Dating tips please ?!?
    smake her junk in the trunk baby its all goodDating tips please ?!?
    Dont go too fast but kiss her with any chance you have. Dont ask her if you can kiss her, take one
    here is a great site I find lots of dating tips on http://internet-dating-guru.blogspot.com/
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  • Dating tips/ relationship with a lesbian? (For LGBT and PLS no haters)?

    I was divorced lesbian from Portsmouth, ohio. I know I am lesbian since I was young and I love women. *only reasons I dated men because of my family don't believe in me dating women and married into bi man and the married lasted 36 days. I would like to start dating women and see how go from there. I don't want to make a false move and get maybe one of us or both of us get hurt. Any tips on dating or relationship?Dating tips/ relationship with a lesbian? (For LGBT and PLS no haters)?
    I agree that you should take it slow.





    Maybe you should focus on being comfortable as a single lesbian first before you jump into the first relationship that comes your way.





    I have a blog where I write articles to help lesbians who've been hurt in the past, rebuild their self-esteem so that they can create the life and love of their dreams. You can check it out at www.realpeoplegoals.com





    Remember, no one is going to really love you until you start loving yourself.





    Good Luck :)Dating tips/ relationship with a lesbian? (For LGBT and PLS no haters)?
    Just be yourself. If this is the first time in your life you get to be who you want to be, might as well do it all the way. :) I'm sure some lovely lady will be very lucky to have you cutie. :)





    XX-M
    If you like only women then date only women....you should go for what you know.Don't date men only to satisfy others .Live for you honey...
    just be yourself mainly, be open, honest and make sure theres loads of laughter
    dont rush it. or go looking for it. it will show up. go clubbing. but if u lookin for serious relationships. do ur friends no lesbians?? if they do ask them to hook u up. or go online.





    if u meet a girl ask her to amovie.and handle it from there. omg and if u ask here plz remember to pay. lol if u want another date. just b urself. girls find that sexi.





    hope i helped.

    Dating tips anyone?

    I know a girl in school. I like her but she ignores it. She knows i like her. I don kno wad to do. So can anyone give a tip or two on my next move?Dating tips anyone?
    just be yourself, show her that you care %26amp; love her. if she loves you back, then *thumbs up* if not, well, she's not made for you. =(Dating tips anyone?
    face it dude, she dont want you
    Make the moves on her best friend. Never fails.
    the tip is u leave her dont trouble her anymore if she ignores u its her wish .
    Just ignore her for some day ,if she likes you she wil def come to you and you just be her friend first and then slowly come close to her.


    Then you can ask her a date for dinner or a coffee with you
    ignore her too!!then she will wonder why you dom'y bug her anymore and the next thing you know is she's waitig 4 you to look at her.
    she's playing hard to get and being mysterious! they say gurls should do that in all the books to make guys want more! i guess its working!
    yeah...sounds like she ain't interested. maybe you should find some other gal to give attention to....ya know...a chick that actually wants it.
    be polite but don't go out of your way to get noticed - when you interact with her, ask her questions about herself and really listen to her answer - if you appear to desperate, women tend to lose interest
    Keep away from Her - better you understand this.
    first if you want to no if she likes you then say to her do u like anyone if she says no then stop buggin her if she says yes(and blush) then say is it someone in this room if she says no dont go further if she says yes say do i no him if she says no then dont go further unless you wanna no if she says yes then its maybe you if she says i cant answer that then its definitely you. then say you no who i like so tell me who you like if she tells you its you dont show how excited you are just smile and say you wanna go out. if its not you dont show how upset you are just be like alright. if she just wont tell you keep buggin her by asking lots of questions if shes getting annoyed then stop it would be very obvious if she doesnt like you at all she would show alittle fustration when talking to or attitude
    LEAVE HER ALONE. SHE OWES YOU NOTHING. JUST BECAUSE YOU LIKE HER DOEASN'T MAN SHE HAS TO LIKE YOU BACK. SHE IGNORES YOU AND SHE KNOWS YOU LIKE HER. DUDE, JUST GO AWAY. FIND SOMEONE ELSE WHO LIKES YOU TO PAY ATTENTION TO.
    Just ask her out, be a man women like men with guts. If she says no she will still have some respect for your courage. And if she doesn't you should find someone else.

    Dating tips from girls only...?

    OK...so what can a guy who screwed up any relationship a couple could have had in the past say to a girl to give him another chance? Please help me....I am going to see this girl I like soon and I really want to start over again with her...Dating tips from girls only...?
    you should take her to a really nice restraunt and bring her flowers and tell her how you messed up and say sorry then drop it........... take her on a nice boat ride or walk and then tell her u love her an blah blahDating tips from girls only...?
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    You don't say how you ';screwed up'; but let me guess, either you cheated or you didn't commit and trashed someones feelings in the process.





    Whatever it was, you really need to show her that you have changed and that means you really have done so, no wavering.





    Then you be honest, tell her from your heart that you are sorry and won't hurt her again, then live by that promise.





    What you have learned is that there is nothing cool about trashing a female because someday, you may want her back again.
    Take flowers.. ***


    Just explain to her that you know you screwed up and you would really like to start over again. Tell her you are sorry for it and you realize your mistakes and you won't even think of doing that again.


    You should just spill out all of your feelings for her. All honesty, NO LIES!!


    Don't lie about anything... Even if it will make her go back with you again. Honesty is the key to relationships.
    well I'm not 19 but i hope i can still help........if my boyfriend or ex would ever do anything to screw our relationship up then he would def. have to butter me up like maybe fix a romantic dinner w/ candle light, romantic music. Then just cuddle together and tell her how much your sorry and that you have thought about what you have done and you would never do it again (only if you mean it!) then maybe everything will work out!
    Okay well im a tad younger. but just act like yourself.. and say really sweet things.. say you regret what you did before.. and you know youve always sscrewed everything up ..and you wanna be the person to have a succesful relationship that sails smoothly

    Dating Tips in communication?

    So I am going on a date soon and I just need some tips on what to do.





    So I am taking her out for a movie and dinner, I am picking her up from her house most likely and were driving to the movies, What should I do? ask her what kinda of movie she likes or should I decide based on what kind of movies she likes? Then were go to TGI Fridays, Should I be like? Lets go eat and take her there or Should I ask her if she wants to go eat and take her there? This is a first date so I don't want to be too controlling. So basically should I ASK her what she wants or should I use my own Judgment on what she likes and pick it for her?Dating Tips in communication?
    If you have a good idea of what she like you should try to use your own judgment.





    Doing the movie 1st is a good idea, it makes it easier to keep conversations going through out dinner.





    You pick the place, wont mind. Say we are going to '; .....'; and if she says she doesnt like it, then go somewhere else.Dating Tips in communication?
    Lol, i think she's fully capable of ordering her own food
    Suggest something, then ask her if she'd like to go there or some place else. Tell her you're flexible. Definitely listen to what she has to say. You'll score BIG points doing that.

    Dating tips for a 49 yr old woman who is about to divorce.?

    i only had 3 boyfriends in my life because i am not the dating type. it scares the heck out of me. all the men i dated chased me to no end and i was engaged to each of them. the last one hunted me down and was so into marring me. he claims that when he first saw me my feet did not touch the ground. i actually floated by his eyes and he knew i was the one. eventually we married. after about 20 years, he decided he wanted other women so i left him. now that i am about to divorce him, i am tying up loose ends. when i am done, i want to look presentable to men. i am thinking of changing my hair and all sorts of things. problem is that i don't want to date. i am scared to death still. i really never learned what to do. these days i will not be so beautiful that men want to chase me down. my personality has to do the work. i am shy. but i am serious about trying to get to know someone. i would never have dreamed of such a thing, but a woman who claims to see the future said that i would have a kind hearted man next year and i would meet him at work. that means that i would have finished school and would have a new career. i am excited about that. the bottom line is that i want to be prepared beyond trying to look and smell nice. i want to know the rules of dating. where do you go. what do you do? i won't have sex till later or till i am engaged or married. i suppose that cuts out a lot of looky loos. what do you think i should do?Dating tips for a 49 yr old woman who is about to divorce.?
    First off be proud that you didnt stay with the man that cheated on you. Life is to short to be treated that way.





    I think you should go out and change your hair, buy some new clothes. But do it for yourself. For the new you. Even if you splurge and go to one of those expensive salons and tell them to do what they want. You will be amazed at how much better you feel with a new hair cut and new clothes.





    As for dating, take it slow. Usually the right man will come along when you least expect it, when you're not looking for it. A lot of churches offer singles nights or have singles groups and activities. Even some communities offer such groups. Of course the internet offers a ton of dating sites like match.com or eharmony.com. These do cost money but it gives you a way to communicate with someone through e-mail and get to know them and what they expect before you meet them in person. Just be up front with a man and let him know exactly what you expect. Also, go out with friends and have fun! Get back to being you again. 20 years is a long time with someone. You need some time to find yourself again. Dont worry about never finding someone, try not to get frustrated. Good things come to those who wait.





    Good luck!! Dating tips for a 49 yr old woman who is about to divorce.?
    if you date a decent man and there are some out there sex is not the most important and if he respects you he will wait and wait until you are ready -- take your time and don't rush it appears you are a kind and lovely lady and you will find that special man to spend your life with.
    Just relax and have some fun...


    Don`t go looking for serious stuff..


    Just enjoy being single..have an adventure


    Sounds as if you have a lot of flirting to do


    Just have a great time and maybe true love will find you soon



    Be yourself! You seem like a very likeable person! Dont worry, there are plenty of men out there that would love to have a woman like you!
    Why would you want to marry again stay free and just go out and have fun.
    Hon.. don't listen to the downers on here. The first thing You have to do is simply concentrate on yourself. Go to a gym. Tone up those muscles... need to lose some weight? Do that.. study fashion trends and decide what style you want in clothes, shoes and such. Look at hair colors... try out something.. Change your makeup.. experiment some with someone you know who knows about that sort of thing. It is exciting to change. Be up... you have a new beginning here and the sky is the limit. Go for the big picture. Have fun while you are doing it. Nothing is more attractive than a strong, confident, happy person. Learn a new hobby or skill. Take on something like helping with a homeless shelter or some such thing. Good luck and enjoy your life... you earned it.
    After hearing ur story I'm really shattered. If 20 years union is not enough to live rest of life together I see no reason why anyone should marry at all. I'm not in a position to suggest that u change ur looks so that someone falls for u. At the age of 49, oh no ! U can't have stable relationship with other man. I'm sorry, it's frustrating.
    You sound as though you have plenty of personality. And 49 is not old. (I am 44). But I know what you mean. Why not try a dating/marriage minded website (the kind where you pay to be matched up - they are more serious), that's how I met my husband five years ago. This weeds out alot of people for you. A new hairstyle and clothes always do wonders for your self-esteem.
    You really should be proud your strong enough to leave a cheater. However why jump right back into another relationship %26amp; your not even divorced yet. Why not give yourself time to enjoy being by yourself, doing what you want. Finish school-change anything you want about yourself, but don't do it for the sake of catching a man. If you don't like yourself the way you are, men won't either. Relationships happen when they are meant to be; don't force it.
    Lady your in for a big awaking. I';m 57 male I have meet a lot great woman but baggage that they have makes me run from them. That have kids that can not get along with each other or they have babied the kid so bad and give them ever thing she has. The men out here are not much good nether. Remember they have been dump because booze , cheating, hitters and what ever woman dump men for. So have fun trying finding some one. I have almost given up.
    Be yourself but you talk of not having sex till you are engaged or married - forget it, there is no one in that age group that will want to get married. I started dating again aged 45 and the men of that age group do not want marriage, all they want is one night stands or short term relationships for sex. Do not do the singles clubs as they are only pick up joints, try the friendship clubs, they are slightly more respectable, you say you want to look nice etc, the guy don't care they only want a leg over. I did find someone and we have been together for 7 years but he will never marry. Good luck.
    Tell you what, break the mould of most British women . Try being nice, modest and charming. Look at yourself. Remember nobody is paid to like you or find you attractive. Therefore you have to make the effort. Be honest with yourself. If you need to lose weight, lose it. Don't fall into the trap a lot of British women fall into, of only doing something for you. No man likes that kind of selfish woman, just as no woman would like that kind of selfish man. If you feel you have lost some looks ( and lets face it most of us have by 49.....I am 55 year old guy and I certainly have !!! ) then develop a sparkling personality and become a good listener. With all that, you should have quality men queuing up for you !! Good luck !!! Oh, and by the way, don't get any tattoos. They suck on men, let alone women !!
    Holy mackerel! You build yourself up, you build yourself down.


    Even though I do not believe in people that see the future, I could change my mind on this one. Just by ';standing'; in the possibility of finishing school, meeting a kind-hearted man and living a life you love, everything else will fall into place with a few bumps along the way. Cut out the drama.
    As an older man myself, I can say there are lots of us thinking a 50ish woman is young and could well be a great partner. Dating is the wrong word for you/us. It is more a matter of what you might like to do together. Don't call it a date....go to a vineyard, museum, play, exhibition, walk, study together (language, kayaking....).... And do look for the right person via your present friends and relations who may have a friend or a relation to suggest, then maybe over a dinner....





    Don't overlook the younger man. And do believe you may have to make the first invitation, ';Shall we gto ... art exhibition, play, book fair... I found my present wife when she was early 60's. Neither have ever had it better. Best wishes.