can you please help me, im really nervous being at the bottom of the food chain again, and ive never dated because i wanted to wait til high school.Im going into high school and i need tips on dating, survival, and all that extra work? HELP?
I was a bit nervous going into high school too.. I'll be a junior soo, I've a bit of experience.. You have to know that high school is full of drama!! It's not all clicks and everything like tv portrays it, but its all drama. Just try not to involve yourself in the drama.. it will be a lot easier if you're on the outside of the drama laughing at everyone involved..
Don't act like a freshman and you won't get treated like one..Don't stand in the middle of the hallways and talk to your friends, just get to your class.. or talk where theres not a lot of traffic.. Even as a sophomore, I could tell which people were freshmans by how they were congregated in the middle of the effing hallway... I'm not saying try and act like you're supposed to be a senior or anything but.. Just don't put yourself out there obnoxiously.. Don't become a whore.. seriously, when it comes to guys you might think that's the route to go.. but don't!!. and I stress that because everybody knows your business.. even if you don't have any business.. they'll make some up.. So just... don't sleep around.. high school is great though don't get me wrong..
Just join clubs and make lots of friends..Don't be shy.. just introduce yourself to people in your classes.. If you see someone by themselves and you're by yourself.. Just go up to them and say hey..my name is... and then just talk to them and stuff.. you'd be surprised at what meeting that one person could do.. because then you meet their friends and well.. then you know more people..
I'm not going to lie and say that it doesn't help to be popular..But don't make that your goal in high school.. You know don't try super hard to date the football QB.. thats not all that important.. just be yourself and you'll be fine.. Understand that there are rumors but just shrug them off.. Really, theres been a lot of crap said about me.. I think it's hilarious... don't dwell on all that crap..
You will get heartbroken.. but look at it as a learning experience.. remember with the good comes the bad.. and just know next time not to make the same mistakes (if any, it could have all been him..)
There is no freshman beat down day.. don't let anybody else tell you different..;D
Homecoming (i recommed going with friends..) and all that are soo much fun.. Home games.. (football and basketball) are soo much fun too.. Like seriously.. it's soo great..Fights are always fun to watch..thats childish i know but hey..
Just don't talk sh*t, don't sleep around, and get your schoolwork done.. If you have homework get that done before you go hang out with people.. Don't listen to the crap your friends say about you wanting to do your homework.. Just get it done, because it sucks trying to catch back up.. And then you get to be the one laughing when you're friends are trying to their assignments during lunch...
High school is great fun. You'll meet soo many people and have awesome memories.. I go back like..August 24th and I can't wait.. Sometimes it sucks..really bad.. but you'll get through it smarter :]
(sorry.. i know that was a lot.. :] )
Good Luck :]Im going into high school and i need tips on dating, survival, and all that extra work? HELP?
i was scared at first i am going to be a senior i am kinda scared to be a senior i don't know why you wil get your heart broken i have alot
Be prepared to get your heart broken. There seems to be alot of broken hearts in highschool. Get into a sport, that helps with survival and just be nice, its hard to dislike a nice person. Do your homework and be on time to class. Do all this and you'll be okay. Good LUCK!
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