Friday, July 30, 2010

Dating Tips Anyone Help?!?

New girlfriend and I want to be a good boyfriend. Got any tips? Im 14 btw.Dating Tips Anyone Help?!?
well if you guys are dating she already likes you for who you are so do what you've been doing and you should be fine ;)Dating Tips Anyone Help?!?
Be nice and don't be too clingy, girls hate it when your to clingy. Love her and treat her like she is the only person in the world... a goddess. Just make her feel special, plan something really fun to do with her for dates. Don't do any lame dinners right now, you really have nothing important to talk about which is all dinners are. Take her to fairs and ammusement parks. Girls love it. If she is ever getting picked on, stand up for her. If she ever need help, be there for her. Thats the best I can do bro.





EDIT: I almost forgot to say that you need to never say anything bad about her or brag about her to your friends. This is a huge thing, trust me. Also be truthful to her.
Well, not to be a meany or anything, you probably won't be with her for the rest of your life, BUT, be kind, think of her and not just yourself, be sure to listen to her when she needs to be understood, understand when she needs space and give it to her, don't force her to do anything she doesn't want to do, respect her boundaries she may set up (for example, sex..if she says no, then it means no...if you respect that boundary, it proves to her that you respect her), be gentle, and always remember!!!!!!!...........words can be sharper and more hurtful than actions but keep in mind, actions speak louder than words: What does it mean?





What you say can hurt her badly


If you say you like her and she's beautiful, then don't be mean to her or your actions are telling her that you don't mean it when you like her or when you call her beautiful.
14 . . .


Well first don't talk bad about her to your friends, second don't try to show off infront of your friends us women don't like that, thrid show her how you feel in front of your friends, forth don't always be around her give her room, but also don't never be there, and mainly show her that you care .
Definitely communicate. This is a great time to practice relationship communication for anything in life, but esp for romantic relationships. Listen, listen, listen. Don't pressure each other about anything the other does not want to do and don't be pressured. Be honest but kind and just treat her like a lady!
don't throw to many compliments at her she'll think your overdoing it, don't call her or text her to much she might be the type that needs her space, don't get to close with any of her girl friends girls HATE when guys do that. be loyal ( :
let her choose when shes ready to do stuff with you (like more than kiss and stuff) bring her flowers on her bday or any special holiday


hang out around her alone, her and her friends, her and her family


let her know you like her
Be true and be yourself. A girl would rather have you be yourself than someone else. You want a perosn who loves you for who you are in the long run anyway. Just be YOU!
Be her best friend. Ask questions, listen, offer advice and support. Treat her like you would your best friend only better. :)
Honesty Loyalty and Nice!
Be a gentleman. Don't call/text her 24/7. Plan a date atleast once a week. Make her laugh!
be honest and ONT SAY STUFF TOO PERSONAL at first
be nice and kind. compliments. show her how you feel ;)
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